The emerald waters of Kilifi Creek, edged by mangroves

Kilifi Creek, KenyaOur StoryBorn from travellers, dreamers & changemakers

How two best friends, a creek that glows at night, and every soul who ever passed through built a home in Kilifi.

Kilifi, Since 2012

Two best friends, one long road

In 2012, two best friends — Romain, a marine biologist dreaming of a world in better harmony with people and nature, and Thomas, devoted to social change, community-building and peacemaking — set off overland from Ethiopia toward Cape Town. They stumbled upon the emerald waters of Kilifi Creek and the warmth of the Giriama people of Fumbeni — and never looked back.

How It Grew

A nest, not a hotel

Spacious shared dormitory at the lodge

So we built the dorm around a tree

Built Around Nature

The idea was never a hotel — it was a nest for the local community and travellers alike, built around one simple question of optimism: how do we design the world we always dreamt of? We work around nature rather than making nature work around us. Houses raised from local soil instead of concrete, roofs woven from palm leaves, and a dorm that bends respectfully around a living tree.

Permaculture garden in Kilifi with banana, papaya and herbs

Sustainability in every decision

A Daily Practice

Productive permaculture gardens designed to leave the soil richer year after year. Compost, rainwater collection, plant-based greywater filtration, eco-building. We call it an experimental model of environmentally and socially conscious living — a daily practice of living in better harmony with nature.

The Name Carries the Dream

We are all Distant Relatives

Inspired by Nas & Damian Marley’s album, the name says it all: every single one of us is related — one big family that has been waiting to reconnect and learn from one another. So we made a space that is radically welcoming, whatever your nationality, wealth, skin colour, religion, age or orientation — with a bed for every budget, so everyone can afford to come stay and mingle.

The Community

Built by every soul who passed through

Live music under the indigenous tree canopy

The beating heart of Kilifi

Under the Stars

Distant Relatives became the original gathering place — locals and travellers from every continent debating how to make the world a little better, and having fun in the process. Generation after generation came through, and many never quite left. They planted trees, taught workshops, played music, started people- and planet-positive projects, fell in love, and made Kilifi their home.

Locals and travellers gathered under thatch

Another way of living is possible

Living Proof

Artists, sailors, permaculture farmers, eco-builders, chefs, dreamers of every kind — each one adding their own unique and beautiful layer. At a time of growing social divide, this humble coastal shamba is our quiet proof that another way of living is not only possible — it is simple, glowing with diversity, and obviously joyful.

The Experiment Is Never Complete

Welcome home

We always need another layer, another teacher. Which is to say: we quite simply dream of welcoming you, and your unique, beautiful self.